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a new smile

Esther just lost her first tooth!

Its been loose for a few weeks and she’s been wiggling it all day.  When she started getting ready for bed, it came out!  She’s so excited and her little brother is very impressed.  :)

Here is the tiny tooth in her little hand:

 

big plans

Jared by you.

Sitting at the nook table, eating our nacho lunch, my conversation with Jared went something like this:

Jared: When I’m grown up, and I’m an Uncle, I’m going to make this.  I’m going to put in the cheese, and the meat, and the beans.

Me: When you’re an Uncle, are you going to make it for the kids when you babysit?

(Jared talks a lot about being an Uncle and babysitting kids.  He also asks to have a babysitter contantly, but that’s another story.)

Jared: Yeah…  When I’m an Uncle, and Esther’s a Mom, I’m going to babysit her kids.  But how is she going to have kids?

I explained that she will grow up, then find someone that she likes that will be a good daddy, and they will get married, then they’ll have kids and be the Mom & Dad.

Jared: When Esther grows up, and gets married, Who is going to be her kids??

Me:  I don’t know.  We’ll meet them when they’re born.

Jared:  Then you’ll be a Grandma.

Me: Yep.

Then he got excited with an idea.

Jared: Mom! When Esther has kids, and I’m Uncle Jared, and you’re… Grandma Mom, can we babysit Esther’s kids together?

I told him I would like that very much.

He talked a little more about him being an Uncle and Esther being a Mom.

Me: Did you know when you grow up, you can be an Uncle and a Daddy?

Jared:  No.  I can only be an Uncle.

Me: No, you can be both.  You-

Jared: NO!  I can only be an Uncle!  (He was starting to get upset already, his eyes watering.)

Me: Why?

Jared:  If I’m not a Daddy, and only an Uncle, I can live in Grandma’s house.

 

And that’s what it all comes down to.